Date a person, not an app.

Expand your social circle with an evening of 5-minute meetings, quick connections and real conversations with real men, just like you.


How Does Gay Men Speed Dating work?

Speed Dating is the BEST way to meet new people and with our texting technology, we ensure you meet only the age of dates you want to meet.

No need to pick anyone up, think about what you're going to talk about or worry that he won't be interested.

Our trained Event Hosts reserve the place, attract the men and all you have to do is show up!

Incorporating one answer from your registration (preferred age range), we make sure you only speed date men who fit your preference. After each 5 minute round, you will receive a text message directing you to your next date.

At the end of each date, you’ll add “feedback” about your date (“2nd date,” or “friend” or "business"). When two singles indicate the same level of interest, we email you both contact information within 24 hours.

Mature, older gay male couple, affectionate, in love, smiling and celebrating a birthday, engagement, anniversary, or Valentines Day with bouquet of flowers

Upcoming Gay Men Speed Dating Events:

Specifically for men of all types and ages, our events are open to all men looking for a male lover. We are genderqueer, non-binary and trans-inclusive.

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San Francisco, 6:30pm
Sun, Sept 22nd

Harborview Restaurant & Bar
4 Embarcadero Center, Street Level

Buy Your Ticket Now Sept 22nd

As of May 2019, we are actively working on additional events in New Jersey, San Diego and Oakland. Add yourself to the list below to be the first to know.

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